Join me for 100 Days of Wisdom!

Wisdom Day 1

Credit: TME 2012 Wisdom Whispers Photog
Credit: TME 2012 Wisdom Whispers Photog


I will be using the hashtag #100daysofwisdom, the title of my forthcoming book (Summer 2013), to track my wisdom journey in the final 100 days of 2012 [See how this Project has evolved in 2013]. My  intention is to get still, get clear and to be more mindful of the wisdom constantly being whispered by Spirit to lead me further along my life path and guide me to be more aligned with my divine purpose.

My prayer is that my journey “out loud” will help you to find your own way along your divinely inspired path as well. When we recognize, honor and listen to the wisdom in the whisper, we tap into the divine energy within and all around, access the creative power that ignites divine action and manifest an inspired, wholehearted life.

Please share your thoughts, reflections and comments. Join me and let’s journey together!

Today’s reflection

“In order to be who you are you must be willing to let go of everything you think you are.”

Michael Singer, The Untethered Soul

[Watch Michael Singer on OWN’s Super Soul Sunday with Oprah Winfrey as they discuss Singer’s journey to inner peace and how we too can all find spiritual freedom.]

See how 100 Days of Wisdom began!

Follow me on Twitter @WisdomWhispers and the hashtag #100daysofwisdom for more reflections on life, love and the wisdom of Spirit!

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Wisdom Lesson 16: Who you are is enough (and all you’ll ever be … if you’re lucky)

“You do not have to do anything to be loved, and being who you are does not let others down. This needs to be repeated, and often. Simply be who you are, and love what is before you.”

Mark Nepo, The Book of Awakening (8/25)

As I make my way through Mark Nepo’s Book of Awakening one daily entry at a time I become more and more convinced that he wrote this book just for me!!!

To be sure, however, he wrote it as an expression of his awakened self; but it’s his intention to bless the spiritual journey of others (like mine and, perhaps, like yours) with the wisdom and insight he’s gathered like breadcrumbs along the way that often moves me to knowing tears. With each passing day and entry I draw closer to my “self”. And because of this I feel this book was tailor-made to be one of the brightest flashing beacons of light intended to show me the way back “home”.

Today’s entry was no exception.

Today’s entry is titled “Love Is in the Being”. I take this to mean it is not what I do that earns love but who I am — the “me” behind the mask of personality and the illusion of fear — that is love and loved just because I AM.

The entry offers that we should not be distracted by others’ expectations of who we should be (or shouldn’t be) or what we should or shouldn’t do because “[b]eing who we are doesn’t let down others.” Or at least, it shouldn’t. And even (and especially) if it does, we don’t do others or ourselves any favors by dimming our light and playing small to promote their comfort. That reminds me of another saying:

“Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

Real love encourages the real you to SHINE; it doesn’t dim your awesome glow. Real love lets you exhale and lean in, it doesn’t require you to hold your breath and complete a laundry list of “to dos” before you earn your keep. In fact, real love doesn’t keep you, it lets you fly. Real love is the wind beneath your wings not the harness that keeps you tethered below the heights to which you were predestined to ascend.

Of course, love also shows up in the compassionate recognition of what others require and desire. But “the displeasure of others is no reason to muffle your love,” says Nepo. Selah [pause and think on that]. And most importantly, we cannot expect others to love without limits if we continually place limits on our own full and loving expression of self.

If your self-critic (yes, the one in your head that won’t shut up about all the ways you’ve “failed” at life) is a meaner son-of-a-gun than the meanest person you know than any perceived lack or limitation that shows up in your life is more likely a reflection of how you feel about yourself than anyone else’s opinion anyway. So start there; with the brightest and darkest parts of yourself. Love them completely. And require everyone who enters your space to do the same.

Remember, love is in the being. Because you are, you are loved. You are more than enough. And all you’ll ever be (if you’re lucky).

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